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WHY?

Thursday, February 17th, 2011

“Why?” If you have children, you’ve been asked this question a lot. “Why is grass green?” “Why do we need to take a bath?” “Why do only women have babies?” (some “why” questions are easier to answer than others)

The question “why” has been gnawing at me the last few weeks and I just have to ask it about today’s church. I don’t claim to have all the answers but that doesn’t invalidate the questions I’m going to ask. There are some tough “why ” questions that we must begin asking ourselves because these questions deal with the real issues of Christianity and the impacts of these questions are eternal. Ask these “why” questions with me – what answers do you come up with?

1. Why did the general society of Bible days like jesus (except the religious elites) but the society of today not like Christians? I think it’s too simplistic to merely answer, “because He is God – that’s why people liked Him.” Those who followed Jesus and were used to start the church found the same relationships with society and the religious elites, just like Jesus – and they weren’t God. For Jesus, if He wanted to get away, He would have to slip out of the crowd and hide. He had people finding Him wherever He went. Individuals would climb trees, drop through the roof of a house, travel on foot for hundreds of miles to see Him. And yet the experience of most Christians today is a society that is indifferent to them at best – but often views them as disconnected and irrelevant.

Like I said, I don’t have all the answers on this, but it would seem that if we are to be like Jesus and possess the life, attitudes and traits that He possesses, maybe we should have the same type of connection or even attraction with the general part of our world?

2. Why aren’t people trusting Christ in our day like they used to in Bible times and throughout much of church history? I understand that there are some theological considerations to all of this, but is God no longer active in our world? Does the gospel lack the punch it once had?

Typically the answers I’ve heard for these questions place the blame on others. Those without Christ are the ones blamed the most and the reasons given is that they don’t like church because of our strong message (was Jesus’ message weak?) or they don’t like me because I stand for righteousness (didn’t Jesus stand for righteousness?). And for those that believe in God’s divine choice of those who would be rescued (which I believe), they would have to assume that God isn’t choosing that many people today to be saved or He just isn’t choosing people in our area. So, in this reasoning, it’s actually God’s fault that people aren’t trusting Christ and following Him – and that’s a reason that I’m not willing to accept.

Could there be some blame that the church and Christians should accept as answers to these questions? Are we really like Jesus was in His community? Are our attitudes toward sinners or those who have little attractive to them or as we indifferent or worse yet, judgmental of those without Christ. Do we have the same priorities in building the church like the early Apostles? Are we genuinely committed to being fishers of men and all that entails or are we more concerned with just keeping the aquarium? Is our church just for church people with our programs, customs and preferences catering to the demands of those on the inside? Or are we concerned for those sheep that have no shepherd and passionate about leaving the 99 to go after the 1 that is lost?

I know that we don’t always like it when people ask “why?” But the answers to these questions have greater implications than “why is the grass green?” The answers to these questions are matters of life and death.

Do You Throw Water On His Fire?

Tuesday, February 1st, 2011

I ran across these two quotes recently on the Holy Spirit. Both quotes are by solidly conservative teachers – both named “Chuck” (although I can’t imagine calling Dr. Ryrie “Chuck”) and both help us realize our need for a daily enabling work of the Holy Spirit in our lives.

Chuck Swindoll says, “Surely the awesome Spirit of God wishes to do more within us than what is presently going on. There are scars He wants to remove. There are fractured feelings He wants to heal. There are insights He longs to reveal. There are profound dimensions of life He would dearly love to open up. But none of the above will happen automatically – not as long as He remains a sterile, untouchable blip on our theological PC.”

Charles (Chuck) Ryrie states, “The solution to the problems of the church today is to solve the individual Christian’s problems, and the solution to those problems in a Person – the Holy Spirit. He is the antidote for every error, the power for every weakness, the victory for every defeat, and the answer for every need. And He is available to every believer, for He lives in his heart and life. The answer and the power have already been given us in the indwelling Holy Spirit.”

These are pretty bold statements – statements that may reveal our complete lack of attention on the deity that God has eternally placed inside each believer. The Holy Spirit resides in those who trust Christ not only for the purpose of sealing us for God’s kingdom in heaven but to also help us get beyond our humanity and weaknesses by His leading and greatly matter for God’s kingdom right here, right now!

To be “led by the Spirit” (Galatians 5:18; Romans 8:14) we must make sure that we don’t “grieve” the Holy Spirit (Eph. 4:30) with attitudes or life patterns that are sinful. We also must be certain that we don’t “extinguish” the fire of the Spirit’s leading in our lives (1 Thess. 5:19). These “extinguishers” can take many forms – delaying, excusing or ignoring His promptings are obvious extinguishers of His leading. One of my biggest “extinguishers” is that of the fear of man. Being fearful of what people think of me, or concerned about their disapproval or their criticism has often been water on the flame of the Spirit’s prompting in my life.

This fear of man complex is probably one of the biggest changes that the Scriptures mention about the first century disciples. This is the reason why we see them go from hiding after Christ’s death to declaring “we ought to obey God rather than man” in the first chapters of Acts. So let’s not fear man or stall when we sense God’s Spirit leading us to do something for His kingdom. Be sensitive and act upon His prompting right away!

Need Some Help Changing The World?

Friday, January 28th, 2011

In 1983 John Sculley quit his post at Pepsico to become the president of Apple Computer. He took a big risk leaving his prestigious position with a well-established firm to join ranks with an unproven little outfit that offered no guarantees, only the excitement of one man’s transforming vision. Scully says he made the risky move after Apple cofounder Steve Jobs goaded him with the questions, “Do you want to spend the rest of your life selling sugared water or do you want a chance to change the world?”

Changing the world was hardly the thought that would come to anyone’s mind when looking at the original disciples. Our mental images of the disciples tend to amplify their presence and ability. If you have ever seen the statues that are purposed to present their stature, we get the impression that these men were firm, staunch, brave and resolute. As unmovable as the rock they are carved in. I believe that to appreciate the transformation they experienced we need a little before-an-after portrait of the men who first walked with Christ.

Robert Coleman, in his “Master Plan of Evangelism” writes . . .

“What is more revealing about these men is that at first they do not impress us as being key men. None of them occupied prominent places in the Synagogue, nor did any of them belong to the Levitical priesthood. For the most part they were common laboring men, probably having no professional training beyond the rudiments of knowledge necessary for their vocation.” Coleman continues, “Perhaps a few of them came from families of some considerable means, such as Zebedee, but none of them could have been considered wealthy. They had no academic degrees in the arts and philosophies of their day. Like their master, their formal education likely consisted only of the Synagogue schools. Most of them were raised in the poor section of the country around Galilee. Apparently the only one of the twelve who came from the more refined region of Judea was Judas Iscariot. By any standard of sophisticated culture then and now they would surely be considered as a rather ragged aggregation of souls. One might wonder how Jesus could ever use them. They were impulsive, temperamental, easily offended, and had all the prejudices of their environment. In short, these men selected by the Lord to be His assistants represented an average cross section of the lot of society in their day. Not the kind of group one would expect to win the world for Christ.”

That sounds like a rather raw rendition of these men Christ chose to serve under Him. The truth is clear about these guys, they bore the marks of those least likely to survive, let alone succeed!

And then something happened. Acts 1:8 “and you will receive “dunamis” after the Holy Spirit will come upon you. And you will be my witnesses.”

I’m fully convinced, friends, that were it not for an enabling encounter with the intimate Spirit of God, these men would have had absolutely no impact on our world. Despite having spent three years with Christ, their personal deficiencies were yet at a climax and there appeared to be no human way out. They would have passed into oblivion like the millions of others who have come and gone in the last two millennia.

Is it really any different for us?? Do we think that we can take on our world and make a genuine difference for Christ without any assistance from the Spirit of God? If the Holy Spirit made that big of a turn-around in the disciple’s lives, could He do great things with us as well? What would be different with us and our ministry if we were running at full throttle on the supernatural fuel of the Spirit of God? Think about that for a bit!

Why Are Baptists So Quiet About The Holy Spirit?

Tuesday, January 25th, 2011

The Holy Spirit. He has been seen in the Bible since the first page of the history of our world – Gen 1:2. He is seen in nearly every book of the Bible. He was active in the major events and people of biblical history. We also know that He was active in the writing of the Bible. However, as often as we see the Holy Spirit in the Bible, much of the Christian’s understanding of the Holy Spirit can be summed up in one word – Confusion! Who is He? What does He do? How does He work?

Much of modern Christianity ends up on either extreme of understanding and practice when it comes to the Holy Spirit. On one side, some are so obsessed with the Holy Spirit that all teaching and attention orbits around Him nearly exclusively.

On the other side, our type of church tends to virtually ignore the Holy Spirit altogether. We have no problem talking about the Holy Spirit being the seal to guarantee our salvation, however, there’s little talk about what He is supposed to be doing every day in our lives.

Calvary (where I pastor) has a long history of minimal if any teaching and discussion on the Holy Spirit? Why is that? Why do many fundamental churches like ours seem to retreat or become skeptical when we hear about His present day working? What are we afraid of? What effect, if any, does our neglect of the Holy Spirit have in our own lives or our church ministry? What would change if we were more tuned in to His leading and guiding? These questions and more are what I’m thinking about today. Do you have any answers to them? If so, let’s hear it.

Squeals of Praise

Tuesday, November 9th, 2010

As you could imagine, with 6 kids, 2 dogs, 1 cat and 1 bunny, the noise factor in the Conover house can get a bit out-of-control at times (the two adults can add to it now and then also). This morning, as I woke up, I listened to a new sound from my 11 week old boy. He is just finding his voice and has been popping out these squeals every now and then – it’s actually a welcome change to the usual sound of crying when he needs something. And from what we can see, he’s just squealing because he’s happy and contented with how things are.

Now let’s face reality, not too many of us are making positive sounds of happiness and contentment at 6am. Sadly, not too many show happiness and contentment even at the peak of the day. Can it be that we’ve come to expect too much out of life? You know, if one thing goes wrong, it puts a damper on the 15 positive things that happened that day. We are clothed, housed, well-fed (maybe too well-fed), have friends, have transportation, have family, and this doesn’t even tap into all the benefits of knowing the God who loves us. Sounds to me like we have every reason to “enter His gates with thanksgiving and into His courts with praise” (Ps. 150:4). And it doesn’t matter if that sound of praise is a squeal, a song, a shout or a prayer, there is every reason to let our gratitude to God be public.

So let’s not let our lives be seen to be like a fussy baby. Focus on the great things God has given and given contented praise to the One who make us and loves us.

Growing Our Effectiveness in Prayer!

Monday, June 28th, 2010

Groeschel hit some excellent criteria for effective prayer. Page 85-88 nailed some priorities that need to be thought through before we pray so that our prayer will mirror what God wants it to be. Here’s the helpful list. I’ll reveal below my biggest challenge on the list.

1. Give thought to our relationship with others before we pray. God cares about how we are with Him but also how we are with others. Mk. 11:24-25
2. Check out motives in praying. OK, who hasn’t blown it on this one.
3. Watch the way we live. I’ll be speaking on this passage July 11th – “The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective.” God certainly listens to those who have listened to Him!
4. We must pray in faith. God can see right through a prayer that doesn’t believe He can fulfill the request.
5. Pray according to God’s Will. Prayer is not a Christmas wish list, but rather an endeavor to discover God’s best for us.

My biggest challenge in the above list is “Asking with the right motives.” I’ll admit, selfishness runs deep in my bones and it takes a lot of soul searching to discern if my prayer is for God to be glorified or me to be satisfied! I’ll need to pray for His help with that!!

God Isn’t Fair!

Friday, June 25th, 2010

That title does not really set too well with me. We all know that life isn’t fair, but God – isn’t He fair?

We all have stories that we could go through that would lead us to the conclusion that God isn’t fair. I remember in my earlier days, a young, beautiful 18 year old girl that had a visible relationship with God, tragically killed in an auto accident. Too many times I have been called into ER with the greatest of unfair circumstances – a husband died of a heart attach, a child was just born dead, a dad and his two sons were killed in a house fire, or a 9 year-old boy just died of a seizure. Probably the “unfair” circumstance that hit closest to home was when my wife’s dad died so unexpectedly nearly 12 years ago, while at the same time, the father of a friend of ours had a stroke, but recovered and is still alive today – that’s not fair!

Well, God isn’t fair, nor does He claim to be fair. However, His unfairness is different that we may think. Ps. 103:10-12 states, “God does not treat us as our sins deserve or repay us according to our iniquities. For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is his love for those who fear Him; A far as the east is from the west, so far has He removed our transgressions from us.”

Groeschel stated it well, “If the wages of sin is death and we’re sinners, then we deserve death. We’ve broken the law. We’re guilty. We deserve to be punished. To die and suffer eternally would be fair punishment for our disobedience. But thank God, He’s not fair.

Think about it, it wasn’t fair that Jesus had to leave his throne in heaven and come earth. It wasn’t fair that He put on flesh and lived a life like we have to live. And it wasn’t fair that He had to die on the cross to bear the punishment for our sin upon Himself. But thank God, He isn’t fair!!

Do We Believe In Prayer?

Friday, June 25th, 2010

If there is one topic that, by preaching it, any preacher could easily bring immense guilt upon a congregation, it would be the topic of prayer. Do we pray enough? Do we pray with freshness? Do we pray with passion? And after answering “no” three times you begin your trek up the aisle at the end of the service to dedicate yourself again to faithful prayer.

I often chalked up the lack of prayer in a believer’s life to that of laziness. However, I think Groeschel is probably more on target when he believes it is more a lack of believing that prayer truly works.

One of the greatest challenges I face with prayer is that of just speaking genuinely from my heart to God. There are so many phrases I have used for many years that automatically pop out with absolutely no meaning behind them – ie. “Dear God, thank you for this day” or how about this one – “Bless this food to our bodies” – oh, how original! God must get so bored with our meaningless verbage. Crazy how I can talk to God and seldom engage my brain. I often think how my wife, Lisa, would feel if I quoted the same identical phrase in every conversation I had with her. I’m sure it wouldn’t be too long before she questioned my sincerity through it.

Well, how sincere are our prayers? Are we honest with God when we pray? (It doesn’t make much sense to not tell the truth since He can see through it anyway.) Do we try to stay away from brainless ruts in prayer?

I’ll make a deal with you – let’s both ask ourselves one question throughout our prayers – “Did I really mean that?” After every main thought we express we can ask that simple question which, hopefully, will evaluate our sincerity in what we say to the God of the universe. Try it out and let me know what how it goes!

I’ve Lost That Lovin’ Feeling!

Wednesday, June 2nd, 2010

How many people have we loved or been loved by only to find out that love is now gone? My wife knows of my “little black book” of all the girls I had dated – none of which now gain any of my attention or affection – “I’ve lost that lovin’ feeling!” in fact, I only know where one of them is today since she is a missionary that we support (I’m not telling who though). My best friend growing up – I don’t know where he lives, who he’s married to or how many kids he has. I have sat in the same room with many couples who either pronounce love because they want to get married, or denounce love, because of their frustration and hurt.

Thankfully, God doesn’t love us in the same way that we love people or that others love us. Personally, I know this concept and I accept it, but I don’t know if I can truly comprehend it for all it is. I can grab the thought “that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from th love of God, that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.” I can see God’s love fighting off demons or traveling the distance to reach me, but what I struggle accepting is the fact that God would love me even though I have done such terrible things against Him. Would I love someone that cursed at me, disrespected and disobeyed me. Would I love someone who has more love for self than for me? And that’s when I get seeing the difference between my love and God’s love. I do love but God is love! Even when I was at my worst, God was true to His character and unconditionally showed His love by giving His all for my rescue. Now that’s love we can believe in and embrace!

Seeing Me How God Sees Me

Wednesday, May 26th, 2010

Sometimes I feel like I am in a carnival, standing in front of one of those curved mirrors that distort the way I look. You know, the mirror that would take my 6 ft. frame and make me look about 4 ft. tall. How easy it is to look at ourselves, as Groeschel stated in chapter 2, through the lens of our past. Some people continue to identify themselves by sins they have done in the past. So how would that make them a “Christian Atheist?”

Take a moment and read 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 and you’ll see how identifying ourselves by our past mistakes causes us to live as though God doesn’t exist. After naming a bunch of sins that the people used to do, he concludes by saying – “And that is what some of you WERE, but you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.” Paul goes on to show that they are no longer what they were because of Christ and His sacrificial death for them. So, TO IDENTIFY OURSELVES WITH OUR PAST SINS IGNORES ALL JESUS HAS DONE FOR US, even if we believe He exists. No longer an immoral, a drunk, a thief, a gossip – now we are washed, made righteous before God and God sees us as though we have never sinned (justified). To avoid being a Christian Atheist, we must start looking at ourselves the way God looks at us!

So, do you see yourself like God sees you or are you standing in front of the carnival mirror? All the things of the past that we regret are gone if we believe in what Jesus did for us on the cross.